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How To Have Lucid Dreams - My Father Taught Me

by Sonya
(Allen, Texas USA)

I started lucid dreaming when I was around 4 years of age (I'm now in my 50's) the reason my father taught me to control my dreams is because I started having horrible nightmares around age 3. One night I was having a terrible nightmare I remember my dad telling me, "When you're having a bad dream picture your hand. See your hand reaching out to "change" the channel on the T.V. Put your hand on the dial then turn the dial until you find the show you want to watch. Sonya you can turn your dreams into anything you want by changing the channel".

Of course at this age I was "making-up" my "shows" as I changed the channel which later I learned were called lucid dreams. But, I was able to control my dreams and the scary dreams were gone.

Waa-Laa easy

If you have a child having nightmares I hope my short story helps you teach your child how to take control.

"Empowering your child to take control of their scary dream gives them a huge boost of self-esteem". :)

Be well.

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Oct 21, 2014
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by: Kevin

Thanks for sharing this Sonya! That's a great insight for your father to give you as a child.

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