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Sleep "Running" (Never Walking)

by Amy
(Ohio)

When I was about 18, I started having my sleep "running" episodes. I have scared the daylights out of a number of people over the years; my parents, college roommate, my husband, our dogs and now my own children. I am usually dreaming that someone is in my home or room that should not be. So I scream (often so loud that the next morning my throat hurts) and I take off running.

My heart is always thudding out of my chest and I am absolutely petrified by whatever has me spooked. Someone always stops me (I have never lived alone). I wake up with a vague memory of what I was dreaming about, give my rescuer a sheepish apology when I view the terror on their face and go right back to bed and am asleep in seconds. I do remember having the episode the next morning and can always relate the events.

I have now been having episodes for 21 years. I can go years between events and then have 3 or 4 within a few months. STRESS seems to be the biggest factor to having an episode. The catalyst in the dream has only altered a few times in all of those years. For a few years, I would dream that there were spiders in my bed and not only would I get out of bed and run, I would first rip all of the blankets off the bed (great way to start a marriage by the way!).

Most of the episodes are harmless, just scary. But once and only once I scared not only myself but my husband as well. When my youngest child was still a baby, he cried during the night and I brought him to bed with me. At some point in the night I dreamt there was a fire in the house, I grabbed and ran down not 1 flight of stairs (which was my usual) but 2 flights, with him in my arms. My husband, who was still awake on the ground floor of our house stopped me and woke me when I sat down on the steps still clutching the baby.

Although I have serious allergies, I will not take any medication that makes me sleepy or feel sluggish when I am the only adult in the house, because I have always been afraid that what little control I have of myself during these attacks will be compromised by the meds and I will do something dangerous. My 16 year old now just gets annoyed. He follows me, yells "you're doing it again..go back to bed" and I do.


That same child had horrible night terrors as a toddler but outgrew them. My other son, 13 year old, did and still does wander the house at night, flipping on lights etc. and my great great grandmother was caught more than once running outside at night screaming...trying to get away from someone!!!


Kevin: Hey Amy, thanks so much for sharing your story. Your perspective and humor on your episodes are really admirable, though I can imagine the frustration you must feel at not being in control during these instances and not knowing exactly when the next one is going to be triggered.

One thing I'm curious to know in terms of identifying what mechanisms exactly are involved in causing your sleep running episodes is whether they initiate during REM or NREM sleep. Sleep terrors and sleepwalking are both associated with NREM sleep, but there's another condition known as REM sleep behavior disorder (RBD) that's associated with (yup, you guessed it :) REM sleep. The vividness with which you describe experiencing the dreams seems like it possibly could lend itself to either a sleep terror or RBD explanation (RBD is much, much more rare of an experience though, and is hardly ever remembered), so I just wanted to mention it so you could be aware of it if you aren't already. You can learn more about it using it's link earlier in this paragraph.

If you were interested in figuring out more about when exactly during your sleep cycles your sleep running episodes take place, I imagine you could use a Zeo to check that out. A Zeo is a cool new personal sleep data device that you wear around your forehead that gives you all sorts of information about your sleep throughout the night. The idea that just came to mind would simply be to wear the Zeo at night until you experience an episode. Then in the morning you could check out if your episode started while you were in REM sleep or NREM sleep, and use that information to explore its causes a little more. Just a thought, but if it intrigues you, you can look into getting a Zeo from their website here.

All the best,
Kevin

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Sleep "Running" (Never Walking)

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Mar 27, 2011
I could have wrote this myself!!!
by: Sharon - Vancouver, BC Canada

I have been running in my sleep for as long as I can remember!!! I am now 38 years old and my husband and children are so used to it that they no longer chase me down and just let the walls stop me in mid-run. I have tried googling and searching this type of sleep disorder forever and this is the first post/story that is EXACTLY like what I have been experiencing... thank you for sharing!! I don't feel so abnormal and alone anymore :)

Jun 05, 2011
Someone like me is out there!
by: Amy

Sharon, if you come back to read this, you have no idea how much it meant to me that someone else has experienced this. I got chills reading your post. I have not had an episode for nearly a year but have also not been sleeping very soundly during that time either and am often exhausted! If you ever find a cause or cure please post and I will do the same. Amy

Jul 14, 2011
Sleeprunning
by: Anonymous

I'm Dwight 42 yrs old, this running after I go to bed has really scared my wife One time I ran down hall and also got outside before she woke me by screaming at me. Also broke glass picture frame on wall. This episode happened after stress over something I couldn't fix or figure out! I'm afraid I might hurt wife or self! have sleep apnea but was told this is different! after episodes I don't remember anything until I get waken up by screaming. Need to get help

Sep 22, 2011
Ah Ha moment
by: Anonymous

Thank you so so so much for sharing your story. I thought I was the only one who would sleep run, never walk. I would tell my friends and family about it and they would always look at me like I had two heads. I can sometimes remember what got me running and the majority of the time I in-vision super large spiders on my ceiling running towards my head to fall on me. My blankets are always on the other side of my bedroom when I go back in too. I can never remember how I make out of my bed unharmed though as I sometimes have clothing racks drying clothes at the end of my bed so I'm not too sure how I get around it without stubbing my toe. I've woken up in hallways, family rooms, kitchens, but never outside thank goodness. I've had it happen once in a year and most recently every night for two weeks so it is difficult to find out what triggers it. When I do wake up my heart is always racing as if I was running for my life. To my family I describe the feeling as an intense, over-whelming feeling of someone trying to kill me. It usually happens to me between 2:30 AM and 3:30 AM. When you don't sleep run do you ever find yourself randomly getting out of bed and just standing there? That's pretty common for me, I do that almost every night at exactly 3 AM. I have no clue why I do that, but on the dot I will wake up standing next to my bed and I have gotten quite used to checking the time before I go back to bed and it's always 3 AM. I've considered trying to join a sleep study to see if someone could help me in finding out what I do when I sleep to see if there are any triggers.

Oct 27, 2011
Running while sleeping but still in bed.
by: Dawn

You guys are amazing. I have been told by my partner that I actually run in my sleep (I never leave the bed..lol). I have woke up and have known that this is true. I don't have any signs of restless leg syndrome and don't have any feelings of being chased...However, its still strange. I really wish I knew what was the cause of it. Its just to bad I actually don't run while I'm awake and outside; I might lose a pound or two...Thanks again!

Nov 12, 2011
So Happy NEW
by: Itali

I'm 37 and I've had them as far back as I can remember. My ex husband just got use to it. I remarried within the last two yrs I use to pray I wouldn't do it. But last night was my third time. I get as far as the front door one time I got down my street. My fear it I can't excape death I don't know if I'm dreaming about dying I just know I'm in deep sleep then bang off I go screaming realizeing I can not stop death. I hate how scared I get once it pass I come back and pass out sleep. While my husband takes a few hours to fall back asleep. He told me to look it up and I found this post. I'm in tears to have found others like me I thought something was mentally wrong with me. Now I might have a reason why cause I was so stressed before I went to bed last night. Thanks everyone for sharing.

Nov 12, 2011
So Happy NEW
by: Itali

I'm 37 and I've had them as far back as I can remember. My ex husband just got use to it. I remarried within the last two yrs I use to pray I wouldn't do it. But last night was my third time. I get as far as the front door one time I got down my street. My fear it I can't excape death I don't know if I'm dreaming about dying I just know I'm in deep sleep then bang off I go screaming realizeing I can not stop death. I hate how scared I get once it pass I come back and pass out sleep. While my husband takes a few hours to fall back asleep. He told me to look it up and I found this post. I'm in tears to have found others like me I thought something was mentally wrong with me. Now I might have a reason why cause I was so stressed before I went to bed last night. Thanks everyone for sharing.

Feb 21, 2012
I had a sleep run experience last night NEW
by: Matthew

I was having some dream that a small animal was trying to bite my foot and while still in the dream I took off running to get away from it. At some point I had one foot in reality and one in the dream and I began to realize I was running through the apartment. As I came out of the dream, I realized that there was nothing there actually chasing me.

I have been known to talk and move about in my sleep, but this is the first time that I know about that I have been running.

Feb 28, 2012
Me too! NEW
by: Anonymous

Last night I went sleep running for the first time in ages. I leaped out of bed and sprinted into a wall. Ouch! I haven't done this in years, but it started when I was a really small child - maybe around 3 or 4 and used to happen frequently. My parents even had me at a psychologist. I thought I'd grown out of it but it's happened a few times since I've been an adult.
I always dream someone is leaning over me in bed - it's so vivid, I get a shock and jump up and run. So odd. But last night I really hurt myself, so googled sleep running this morning and found this page. Thank you! I feel less crazy now.

Apr 03, 2012
ouch! NEW
by: Anonymous

I do this 2-4x per week (it is very exhausting!) last night I had 2 separate episodes. Mine is that all of a sudden I remembered I was taking care of a pet for someone and had forgotten about it (for a very long time... it's most certainly dead if I ever found it). I bolt out of bed and fly down the stairs shouting profanities and searching for "the dog, omg the dog"
This scares the crap out of me! I feel like I am going to have a heart attack. Most the time nothing bad happens except I wake my daughter with my yelling and banging around.
But in the last week I broke my baby toe, twisted my ankle, jacked up my knee and tweaked my wrist... all from running in my sleep. I think breaking my toe has made my balance off and in my sleep i now keep hurting myself even more. This has got to stop! Ugh,
glad to know there are other people who deal with this.
it is within 30 mins of me falling asleep

Apr 15, 2012
Oh, I'm not alone! NEW
by: Anonymous

When I was a little girl up into adulthood, I dreamed of being chased, and I physically ran through my room and often out the bedroom yelling. I was always chased by a woman, I don't know why, but there was a part of me that believed her to be death...I'm just thankful somebody else has gone through similar, and that I really am not alone.
I still would like to understand the "Why" a lot better.

Apr 15, 2012
Oh, I'm not alone! NEW
by: Anonymous

When I was a little girl up into adulthood, I dreamed of being chased, and I physically ran through my room and often out the bedroom yelling. I was always chased by a woman, I don't know why, but there was a part of me that believed her to be death...I'm just thankful somebody else has gone through similar, and that I really am not alone.
I still would like to understand the "Why" a lot better.

Apr 15, 2012
UPDATE NEW
by: Amy

This is Amy...the original writer of Sleep "Running" (Never walking). You have no idea how comforting it has been to read what all of you have written since I first posted. For my entire adult life, I truly believed that I was crazy. So here is the update. Shortly after posting some interesting things happened in my life including having my husband of 19 years walk out on my children and I. It was an extremely stressful and emotionally abusive marriage and what should have been even worse was becoming a single parent who was left holding the bag. BUT, an amazing thing has happened. For the first time in 20 years I have gone 19 months without an episode. I had the last one just days after he moved out and have never attempted to sleep run again. I guess I always knew that stress was the trigger but little did I know that apparently he was the source of the stress. My prayer for all of you is that you somehow are able to locate the source of your episodes. My life is so different today than it was before. I will check back with you to see how you are doing. Good luck!

Apr 15, 2012
UPDATE NEW
by: Amy

This is Amy...the original writer of Sleep "Running" (Never walking). You have no idea how comforting it has been to read what all of you have written since I first posted. For my entire adult life, I truly believed that I was crazy. So here is the update. Shortly after posting some interesting things happened in my life including having my husband of 19 years walk out on my children and I. It was an extremely stressful and emotionally abusive marriage and what should have been even worse was becoming a single parent who was left holding the bag. BUT, an amazing thing has happened. For the first time in 20 years I have gone 19 months without an episode. I had the last one just days after he moved out and have never attempted to sleep run again. I guess I always knew that stress was the trigger but little did I know that apparently he was the source of the stress. My prayer for all of you is that you somehow are able to locate the source of your episodes. My life is so different today than it was before. I will check back with you to see how you are doing. Good luck!

Apr 24, 2012
Sleep Running NEW
by: Anonymous

I am very glad to find out that this doesn't only happen to me. Today is the third time this has happned to me, the second time my room was completely dark and I ran and hit the foot board of my bed (and broke it) and hit the ground panicing searching for the light switch.

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